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Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage

Love Marriage (or) Arranged Marriage?

Marriage Astrology Chart Predictions
Father (or) Husband: Who is Important? 

Question: I am facing severe mental stress due to peer pressure regarding marriage. My parents are extremely orthodox and interfere with every decision in my life. I wish to marry my boyfriend from a different caste but my whole family is against this. Is there any possibility that I will have a normal married life with my bf? DOB 24 April 1988 11:56am, Kolkata.


Birth Star: Pushyami 4

Moon sign: Cancer/Kataka Rasi

Rising Sign: Cancer/Kataka Lagna

Sun Sign: Aries/Mesha Rasi


1. Your Relationship with your Family as a whole: Strong & stable; both comfortable & uncomfortable.

2. Your Relationship with your father: Uncomfortable & fluctuating.

3. Your Relationship with your Partner: Unstable & uncomfortable

4. Your Personality & Decision-making Capabilities: You are neither mentally strong & confident nor fully mentally weak & vacillating. Sometimes, you exhibit too much of positive confidences; and but would develop fear, worries & anxiety equally within your inner mind. But you would possess repulsive character (or) you would choose to do something opposite, when anyone try to control your life (both in your personal life and on professional matters).


Conclusion:

1. The problems of anxiety, mental stress, doubts, fear and worries are embedded in your life. That is, your worries are not going to be confined to your marriage life; and it is applicable in every issues of your life.

2. You will be seriously affected by mental stress, if you are not able to conclude your marriage. You will also be seriously affected by mental stress, if you are able to conclude your marriage. That is, you will worry about antagonizing your father & your paternal relationships, if you are successful in marrying your boy friend. You will also end up in worrying about your Partner, if the marriage proposal doesn’t conclude.

3. Your inner mind will get confused in endless manner (or) it will confuse you to the core in taking quick decisions.

4. One should think hundred time in taking decisions; but should not vacillate after talking any decisions. That is, you should have calculated this scenario before committing yourself to the love proposals.

5. You may argue, quarrel (or) does something opposite, when somebody force you to do something. Hence, do not try to take any opposite decisions, just because it is being thrust upon you. Find out, whether it is good for you or not?

 

What do the Horoscope say?

1. Your Horoscope indicate difficulties, and few ups and downs on your married life. Nearly 70% of the world population have these kinds of parameters. That is, the native will get married; but faces fluctuations and difficulties in their life.

2. As per your horoscope, you will not have good working relationship with both your father & the father-in-law (or) your father & your father-in-law may face difficulties & setbacks in their life. Similar situation arises for anyone, who develops partnership with you both before marriage and after the marriage periods.

3. That is, you need to be affected by your father (or) your father needs to be affected by you (or) your father will face difficulties in his life, whenever you pass through the Guru and Budhan’s dasa (or) their sub periods.

4. You should have the courage to choose between your father & your Partner. If you think that you have selected the best partner, then go ahead with your marriage. If not, do not antagonize your father and paternal family relationships.

 

Author’s Opinion:

1. Your major problems is your mental health. It will make you as a “Doubting Thomas”. Hence, you need to careful during the Budhan and Guru’s dasa (or) their sub periods about your anxiety related problems. If mismanaged, it could create “Suicidal tendencies” too.

2. Problems are there in most of the peoples married life. Try to find out, whether it would be manageable? Hence, it depends on your Partner’s character and his probable married life. Marriage with your Boy friend is recommended only, if he has good character and good horoscope. If you have doubts, try to sail along with your family.

3. Cut down your emotions. Take decisions in an intelligent manner. Then your life would be successful.

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