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Is it possible to get a good married life even if my birth chart shows an unhappy married life?

Marriage Astrology
Marriage Astrology

Yes, it is possible to build a successful marital relationship, despite the short comings in the native’s horoscope.

1. If both the Husband the Wife have good natal horoscopes, then they can expect to have successful married life.

2. If any one of the Couple has good natal horoscope, then they would be able to overcome the setbacks in their life and their marital relationship survives.

3. If both the Husband the Wife have problems in their respective horoscopes, then they would face serious difficulties in their marriage life.

4. If both the Husband the Wife have problems in their respective horoscopes, and if both of them possess good characters and perfect understanding of each other, then their marital life would survive despite the shortcomings.

5. If both the Husband the Wife have problems in their respective horoscopes, and if both of them possess bad characters and perfect understanding of each other, then their marital life would also survive despite the shortcomings. Here both of their mind work in tandem.

6. If both the Husband the Wife have problems in their respective horoscopes, and if both of them possess good characters and poor understanding of each other, then the success of their marital relationship depends on the dasa periods (Time).

7. If both the Husband the Wife have problems in their respective horoscopes, and if both of them possess bad characters and poor understanding of each other, then their marital life would not survive for long.

 

Here, the success of married life, depends on various factors.


1. The Horoscope that indicates good parameters for family & marital life.

2. Any one of the Partner has good parameters for family & marital life in their horoscope.

3. Both of them possessing good characters and good understanding of each other.

4. Any one of partner possessing good character and good understanding with another partner.

5. Both of them possessing bad characters and better understanding of each other.

6. Good Dasa Periods & Good Transit periods for both the Couples.

7. Good Dasa periods & Good Transit periods at least for any one of the Couple.

 

Answer to the Question:

 

1. If your natal chart (D-1) indicates the conjunction/aspection of any malefic planets with your 2nd house (or) 2nd house lord (or) both, then you will face troubled family relationships. In that case, select a partner who has good planets placement in his/her 2nd house; and the partner’s 2nd house lord is not placed in malefic house (or) doesn’t remain in conjunction/under aspection of malefic Planets.

2. If your natal chart (D-1) indicates the conjunction/aspection of any malefic planets with your 7th house (or) 7th house lord (or) both, then you will face troubled partnership. In that case, select a partner who has good planets placement in his/her 7th house; and the partner’s 7th house lord is not placed in malefic house (or) doesn’t remain in conjunction/under aspection of malefic Planets.

3. Select a Partner, who has his/her Lagna Lord (1st House), does not remain in any malefic house and does not remain in conjunction/come under aspection of any malefic house lords. There should not be any malefic planets in the Lagna; and the Lagna does not remain in conjunction/come under aspection of any malefic house lords. If Lagna (or) Lagna Lord (or) both is afflicted, then the person will not take good decisions in his/her life (or) would take decisions that are controversial & damaging.

4. Select a Partner, who has his/her 3rd house Lord does not remain in any malefic house and does not remain in conjunction/come under aspection of any malefic house lords. There should not be any malefic planets in the 3rd house and the 3rd house should not come under any aspection malefic planets (or) malefic house lords. If the 3rd house/3rd house lord is afflicted, then the person will possess hidden personality (they would exhibit numerous personalities like remaining highly emotion (or) threatening others (or) showing signs of mental distress) and take decisions that could cause damages in others life (or) they would harm their own life.

5 Select a Partner, who has his/her 4th house Lord does not remain in any malefic house and does not remain in conjunction/come under aspection of any malefic house lords. There should not be any malefic planets in the 4th house and the 4th house should not come under any aspection malefic planets (or) malefic house lords. If the 4th house/4th house lord is afflicted, then person would remain undependable (or) treacherous (or) lead a damaging lifestyle.

6. Select a Partner, who has his/her 8th house Lord does not remain in any malefic house (including in its own 8th house) and does not remain in conjunction/come under aspection of any malefic house lords. There should not be any malefic planets in the 8th house and the 8th house should not come under any aspection malefic planets (or) malefic house lords. If the 8th house/8th house lord is afflicted, then the person will remain quarrelsome (or) highly repulsive.


Minimum Checklist for good marital Life (even if you had bad parameters in the Horoscope for marital life):


1. In your Partner’s horoscope, the 2nd house lord should be well placed in benefice houses; and should not have any association with malefic planets. There should not be any malefic planets in the 2nd house of the Partner. This would assure you good family relationships.

2. In your Partner’s horoscope, the 7th house lord should be well placed in benefice houses; and should not have any association with malefic planets. There should not be any malefic planets in the 7th house of the Partner. This would assure you good partner relationships.

3. In your Partner’s horoscope, the Lagna lord should be well placed in benefice houses; and should not have any association with malefic planets. There should not be any malefic planets in the Lagna of the Partner. This would indicate the good personality and good behaviour of your Partner.

4. In your Partner’s horoscope, the 3rd house lord should be well placed in benefice houses; and should not have any association with malefic planets. There should not be any malefic planets in the 3rd house of the Partner. This would make your partner to possess rational thinking and good understanding levels.

5. In your Partner’s horoscope, the 4th house lord should be well placed in benefice houses; and should not have any association with malefic planets. There should not be any malefic planets in the 4th house of the Partner. This would indicate the good habits; transparent lifestyle and they would remain dependable/loyal to their partner.

6. In your Partner’s horoscope, the 8th house lord should be well placed in benefice houses; and should not have any association with malefic planets. There should not be any malefic planets in the 8th house of the Partner. This would make your Partner to remain adjustive and cooperative with everyone. (they will not remain quarrelsome). This rule is applicable, even if the 8th house lord is present in the malefic 8th house (it is better to avoid horoscope that indicate the presence of 8th house in its own 8th house (or) 6th house (or) 12th house. Some may say, it is Vipreet Raja Yoga, but in reality, it creates too much difficulties).


Dasa Sandhi: Both the Couples should not pass through the malefic Mahadasa (or) malefic Antardasa periods in a concurrent manner that could rupture the family setup (or) marital ties. Even if both Couples have horoscopes that is indicative of troubled ties within the family (or) troubled ties with the Partner, still they can manage the situation, if they do not have “Dasa Sandhi” factor with their horoscope.


Author’s Take: There are many ways to make our life better, even if we have disappointing planetary position in our horoscope. There are also many ways to make our marital life problematic, by choosing the wrong partner into our life, despite having good parameters in our horoscope which indicates good family & marital life.

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