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WHY DO COUPLES FIGHT AMONG THEMSELVES

Why do Couples fight? 

Marriage Counselling
Kalathira Dosha

1. The Couple always squabble among themselves.

2. A husband always disagrees with his wife on every issues; and vice-versa

3. The Couples always loves to disagree with each other.

4. The Couple always take decisions diametrically opposite to each other.

5. Any one or both of the Couples shout or fight it out at even for petty reasons.

Let us find out the planetary position that brings nightmarish marital ties:

1. If the Couple come under the SASTANGA DOSHAM @ if a husband's rasi is 6 or 8 places away from the wife's Rasi or vice-versa. The Couples come under this category often develop diametrically opposite views, which leads squabbles or fights. please find the table that contains the details of the Rasi (if the Couples come under this Rasi) that escalates the fight.




2. The Couples having KALATHIRA DOSHA will also fight with each other. The Couple who has their 7th house lord (House Lord of Life Partner) is placed or combined with 6th house Lord (House Lord of enemies), then they often fight (or) quarrel (or) differ with each other. Here the Couple may involve in physical fight (or) may fight out in a court (litigation). 

The Couple who has their 7th house lord (House Lord of Life Partner) is placed or combined with 8th house Lord (House Lord of Sorrow) will experience bitterness on their relationship This could lead to separation/divorce (or) the Couple may make the partner's life horrible. 

The Couple who has their 7th house lord (House Lord of Life Partner) is placed or in conjunction with the 12th house Lord (House Lord of Losses) will experience losses (or) setbacks (or) failures on their relationships. This could lead to dissatisfacion on their relationship (or) the Couple would blame their partner for their failures. 

* If any of the Couple has Kalathira Dosham in their horoscopes, then the problems occur in a moderate manner. If both of them have the "Kalathira Dosham" indicated in the horoscope, then their differences often reaches the peak.

3. The fight between the Couples often peak, if any one of the Couple's has the combination of 7th house lord with the 6th and/or 8th house lord/or 12th house lord exist in the Navamsa chart. If both the Couple's navamsa chart indicates the existence of the same planetary position then their fight escalates to an unbearable level.

4. The Couples fight increases to a alarming level, if any one among the Couple has the combination of 7th house lord with the 6th and/or 8th house/or 12th house lord exist in the Trishamsha chart. If both the Couple's Trishamsha chart indicates the existence of the same planetary position then their fight reaches its unimaginable level.

Note: 

1. If a person has "Yes" answer for all these 4 points, then the Couple would become popular among their family members and the public through their fight and litigations.

2. The above planetary position would only indicate the differences, arguments, fights and litigations among the Couples.

3. The above planetary position does not indicate the limited, temporary or permanent separations of the Couples.

4. The above planetary position does not indicate the nature of differences (@ verbal abuse, mental abuse, physical abuse or character assasinations)

5. The above planerat position does not indicate the nature of litigations (Physical torture, legal and non-legal disputes).

6. Further analysis of both the Couple's horoscope will give answer for our question like "Will the fights lead to separation (or) litigation (or) divorce. 

ARIES - MESHA RASI   Taurus - Rishaba Rasi Palan   Gemini - Mithuna Rasi    Cancer - Kataka Rasi   Leo - Simha Rasi   Virgo - Kanni Rasi     Libra - Thula Rasi     Scorpio - Viruchika Rasi    Sagittarius - Dhanusu Rasi    Capricorn - Makara Rasi   Aquarius - Kumbha Rasi   Pisces - Meena Rasi

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