MARRIAGE ASTROLOGY: Successful Marriage

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Wednesday, 29 March 2017

HOW TO FIND BEST LIFE PARTNER?

Vedic Astrology: Pitra Dosha and Marriage:

Everyone must understand that the existence of “Pitra Dosha” in the natal Horoscope has the capacity to derail the Marriage and Personal Life of anybody in this world. Let us first understand “What is Pitra Dosha?” and “What are the impacts of Pitra Dosha on the Marriage Life?”  



What is “Pitra Dosha?”

The word “Pitra” (or) “Pitru” means the “Souls of the departed ancestors”. As per the Hindu Religion, the death is not end to a life @ the soul of the departed person would take another form of life in a separate world called “Pitru Logam (World of departed souls) away from the Earth. Let us define it in the following ways to understand it better.

A person had died; and his soul would knew that the death had happened to him @ the soul will possess the exact amount of consciousness about his earlier life & family.

Everyone will have “Sthula body” meaning that it is noticeable and traceable. Anybody can see it, feel it, experience it and interact with it. After death, everyone will have “Sooksama body” meaning that is invisible and untraceable. Nobody can see it, feel it, experience it (or) interact with it. The Soul which has “Sooksama body” does not come under common physical laws that are applicable in this world. The Soul can hear what others speak; but they are incapable of communicating with them. The Soul can travel at the speed of the mind. The Soul can penetrate any objects (or) any medium.

The Soul would attain another medium @ body called as “Sooksama” (or) “Aruba” meaning that “unnoticeable”. The Soul would remain mentally connected to their family members because of their love, pain and emotions.

The Soul would need to depart from this world on the 13th day from its death.

The Soul would travel for one year to reach the Pitra Loga (World of Departed Souls).

The Souls would be needed to wipe out their emotional links with their old family members, so that they would be eligible to take next birth in another form.

There are two options that would be available to the Souls to attain these results.

1.   The Soul be matured enough to understand that this is the new reality; and must eliminate all the emotional links about their earlier family related issues.
2.   The family members especially the male members of the departed souls must do the “Shraddham” and “Pitru Tharpanam” for the departed souls to help them to heal their mental wounds; and help prepare for the next form of life (*The methods are clearly defined in the Hindu Vedas).

Normally, the Souls of the peoples, who possess the spiritual maturity, would automatically get detached from their old family’s emotional issues. Thus they would be in a position to take another form of life.

Majority of the souls that leaves behind the world with love for money, property (or) family relationships along with anger and vengeance would remain connected to their old family members through strong emotions. In such cases, the “Shraddham” and “Pithru Tharpanam” is highly necessary to cut off the emotional links with their departed ancestors. In not, the Souls become restless and highly frustrated because of the long agony to wait endlessly for the next birth, because the soul would experience all the pain and sorrow that it had endured during the time of death. This would make the Souls to condemn (or) curse their remaining family members due to their indifference (or) negligence. The curse of the souls of the departed ancestors on their family members is defined as “Pitra Dosha”

Alternative reasons for family getting afflicted by “Pitra Dosha”

As per the Hindu Religion, the following 5 sins are considered as highly dangerous and condemnable.

1. Don’t cheat anyone for any reasons @ earning money/assets through illegal (or) immoral (or) unethical manner

2. Don’t speak anything that you don’t know @ speaking ill about others without knowing the truth (or) giving false testimony

3. Don’t create divisions within a family, couple, friendship, relationship (or) partnership

4. Don’t damage the modesty (or) life of women @ physically/sexually abusing (or) willfully cheating them on the relationship (or) maintaining extra-marital relationship.

5. Don’t aid, support (or) act on the issue of cruelty/maiming/killing any humans, animals (or) all creatures in the world.

Results: If anybody does this act in their life, they may have to take multiple births and go through same kind of agony that they have inflicted on others. Thus the Pitra Dosha would automatically affect any family, if they indulge in these acts.

How would you identify the family afflicted by “Pitra Dosha?”

Following symptoms in any family would help you to easily identify the presence of “Pitra Dosh”

Level 1: Inordinate marriage delays; living as bachelors for the entire lifetime

Level 2: Failed Marriages due to various reasons like separation, divorce (or) death.

Level 3: Inordinate delay in getting conceived for a child

Level 4: Miscarriages during the pregnancy (or) forced abortion (or) willful abortion

Level 5: Serious problem occurring during the pregnancy

Level 6: Possessing a child with mental (or) physical disability.

Level 7: Unnatural death occurring in a family due to accidents (or) murder (or) suicide 

Note 1: The Level 1 represents the least level of problems in “Pitra Dosha” and the Level 7 represents the worst form of “Pitra Dosha”

Note 2: You must understand that the “Pitra Dosha” would not create any major impact on career, finances (or) wealth of a native who has been affected by “Pitra Dosha” Hence don’t assume that just because a person is rich (or) powerful, then it doesn’t automatically guarantee a peaceful life.

Impact of “Pitra Dosha”:

1. The Couple would face quarrels, squabbles and fight on daily basis ripping off their peacefulness in their family life.

2. The Couple would maintain distance away from each other (or) face temporary separation.

3. The Couple would face permanent separation due to divorce (or) death of their Partner.

4. The Couple could face inordinate delays in getting pregnant (or) face multiple complications during the pregnancy.

5. The Couple would face prospect of adopting another child.

6. The Couple would be saddled with mentally (or) physical disabled child.

7. The Couple could face sudden losses/damages (or) unexpected events impacting their life heavily.

8. The Couple would be made to remain as an onlooker into the sufferings of their future generations.

How to identify the “Pitra Dosh” in the Horoscope?

1. The presence of the Sun, descending Moon, Mars, Raghu, Sun, Shani and Kethu in the 5th house indicates the Pithru dosham (Pitra Dosha).

2. The 5th and/or 9th house lord getting debilitated or in retrograde position or getting weakened.

3. The 5th and/or 9th house lord is either being associated with malefic planets or staying in a malefic house.

4. The presence of debilitated or retrograde planets in the 5th and/or 9th house.

5. The 5th house and/or 9th house lord is getting weakened in the Divisional charts.

6. The 5th house lord and/or 9th house lord traversing in the Star of a malefic planet or traversing in the 22nd star/88 division from the birth Star.

7. The presence of malefic house lords getting placed in the 5th and/or 9th house

8.  Association of 5th and/or 9th house lord with Raghu/Kethu in any house. The problems could remain intense, if the 5th and/or 9th house lords placed in a closer proximity towards the Rahu/Kethu

9. If the Raghu or Kethu is placed in a close proximity to the Sun and/or Moon.

10. If the 5th or 9th house lords getting very low counts in their respective Ashtavargha charts; this situation indicates serious nature of the Pitra Dosha. 

Author’s Opinion:

Do not invite troubles to your daughter by getting married to a boy from a family that has “Pitra Dosha” as an additional asset.

Keep safer distances away from the family who possess these following symptoms.

1. Rich family but the earnings are done in an illegal (or) immoral (or) destructive manner

2. Parents of the boy who cheats their own brother & sisters for property

3. Family possessing legal battle in the court over the property issue

4. Family who doesn’t care for their aged parents

5. Family who has directly (or) indirectly involved in sex related crimes

6. Family who has directly (or) indirectly involved in crimes that are related to physical abuse/murder attempt/murder charges.

7. Family consisting of members with serious physical (or) mental disabilities

8. Family with any record of accidents/suicide/suicidal attempt

Success of the marriage couldn’t be decided on the basis of Marriage Matching. A Marriage could fail despite having perfect matching 10/10 points; and fails in “Pitra Dosha” test.

A handsome boy (or) boy from a wealthy family (or) a boy with excellent job is not a guarantee the successful (or) peaceful marriage life.

Parents must understand that you are doing great damage and disservice to your daughter, if choose a boy whose family is afflicted by Pithru Dosham.

Girls must understand that the personality, job, wealth and status of the Boy are no guarantee for the success (or) peacefulness of the marriage life.

Remedies:

1. Frankly speaking there is no remedies @ you need to pay for the wrong selection of a boy in your life due to your lust, ravenousness and greediness

2. Those who had already married and start to read this Post now, go to my blog: www.pithrudosham.blogspot.in and read all the contents properly. Ask the elder member of the family to do the Pithru Tharpanam and Shraddham without any break.


But “Prevention is better than cure”; hence try to be wiser before your marriage. 

Sunday, 11 January 2015

HOW TO USE ASTROLOGY FOR CONDUCTING MARRIAGE?

Successful Marriage through Astrology:

Mob or Mass Hysteria on Marriage Astrology:

"I don't understand anything; but everybody follows some system'. Hence I do follow it. That is, a society in general follow certain system either due to rumours or fear. These tendencies are defined as mass or mob hysteria. In general, most of the people believe or follow certain system or method without understanding it or verifying it. Hence the decision taken under this hysterical conditions do not evolve under any logic or reasons.

Astrology is being used by most of the people, when the marriage is to be conducted. The Boy or the Girl don't understand anything about the Astrology. Simply they understand that a marriage could become successful, if they come under perfect Marriage Match. Hence they look for their Birth Star and Rasi and do conclude the feasibility of their marriage. That is, a marriage becomes more successful, if the couples has perfect matchings among them; and the couples get dejected, if they fail in the Marriage Match Test.

Can a Marriage be successful, if the Couples have perfect marriage match among them?

OR

Will the Marriage ends in failure, if the Couples don't have marriage match among them?

What is Marriage Match? 

Even before 60 years back, the Girls were not allowed to come out of their house after attaining puberty. Those days, the Girls were not allowed to speak to strangers. While conducting a marriage, the prospective groom were not allowed to see or speak to the bride. Most of the marriages were conducted without the consent of the bride or groom. That is, the young boys or girls didn't get the opportunity to express their views.

There was no mobile phone, internet or camera to take pictures or to speak to one another. The Bride and the Groom had to mostly rely on the versions and informations or descriptions provided by their family members. The Groom would be able to see the face of the bride only after the completion of marriage rituals.

The "Marriage Match Test" is a tool devised by the Astrologer who were living at those time to find out the physical, mental and sexual compatibility of the Couples. That is, the Marriage Match Analysis will tell you, whether the Couples enjoy physical compatibility or mental compatibility or sexual compatibility. For example, we shall study certain listed matchings (porutham).

Gana Porutham: This particular Marriage Match tell us, whether the Couples enjoys good physical compatibility or not. The Couples who have the below mentioned complexions or body structure will fail in their Gana Porutham test.

1. Thin Boy with chubby Girl (OR) a fat boy with a lean girl

2. Tall Boy with short girl (OR) vice - versa

3. Dark coloured Boy with fair skinned girl

What the Gana Porutham doesn't tell: This Porutham will not tell us, whether the Boy or the Girl has any health problems.

Rasi Porutham and Rasi Athipathi Porutham: Both the Porutham (Marriage Match Test) tell us, whether the Couple will have similarity in their thinking and behaviour and also tell us, whether they enjoy mental cohesion. The Couples who come under this category fail on this Rasi or Rasi Athipathi or both the tests.

1. The Couples speaking under the multiple voices or speaking in two different voices.

2. The Couples taking diametrically opposite views on every important views.

3. The Couples often prepare to argue or quarrel or squabble among themselves.

What the Rasi Porutham or Rasi Athipathi Porutham does not indicate: These Porutham doesn't tell us, whether the Girl or the Boy has any criminal characteristics or unwelcome behaviour

Yoni Porutham: This particular Marriage Match tell us, whether the Couple enjoys their sexual relationship or not @ whether they enjoy sexual compatibility among themselves. The Couples who are mentioned under this category fail or remain disappointed or remain disillusioned with their sexual relationship.

1. The Girl with small vaginal openings and the Boy with Large genitals and vice versa. This will create immense pain during the sexual relationships.

2. The Girl with delayed orgasm and the Boy with premature ejaculation.

3. The Girl and the Boy possessing different attitudes or habits or interests in their sexual activities.

What the Yoni Porutham doesn't tell us that?: This Yoni Porutham doesn't indicate the sexual ability or weakness (OR) it doesn't indicate the sexual behaviour or habits.

Now let us work with a probable scenario 1: 

Select a male, who has criminal background. Draw a horoscope chart for him and find out his Rashi (Zodiac sign) and Nakshatra (Birth Star). Select a female with good educational and financial background. She will also posses a Nakshatra and Rashi.

Now match both the horoscopes. In case, if there is perfect matchings (for example: 8 out of 10) between those horoscopes, can the female with good character and background marry the male with criminal background? Will the marriage be successful or brings happiness to the female?

Here the Marriage will not be successful, despite the Marriage Match Analysis indicates high level of matchings between the male and the female.

Let us study the possible scenario 2:

For example a person who was convicted of some serious criminal charges and he married a women, who also has criminal past in her life. Suppose the Couple gets 8 out of 10 Marriage matchings, then they live happily as couples. Because their attitudes and lifestyle are more or less the same. There could be perfect mind coordination on criminal activities by both the Couples. Perhaps they look could be perfect personality matches between them; also they could be fully satisfied on their sexual relationships.

Does this guarantee the Couple a perfect and happier life? The Couple could become the best partners @ whether they remain inside the jail or move out of the jail, they remain as the best partner to each other.

Author's Opinion: 

1. The Marriage Match Analysis doesn't guarantee the success of the marriage life.

2. Gana Porutham is irrelevant today, because the Couples see each other, interact with each other and chat with each other. When you know your partner very well, why do you need a Gana Porutham to find out the physical compatibility?

3. Rashi Porutham or Rashi Athipathi Porutham is unnecessary, because the Couple gets ready for their marriage only after understanding about the nature, behaviour and tendency of their life partner. The Couple could not blame others for their failure of their marriage, if they find deficiency in the mental cohesion at the later stage.

4. Yoni Porutham: Large section of the present generations even have physical relationship before getting married. For those categories, even the Yoni Porutham is not all necessary.

What the Marriage Match doesn't tell us or indicate?

1. The Marriage Match will not indicate the characteristics, attitudes or behaviour.

2. The Marriage Match will not indicate the physical and mental health.

3. The Marriage Match will not indicate the financial or professional success.

4. The Marriage Match will not indicate the sexual potency level.

5. The Marriage Match will not indicate the life longevity.

Hence the Marriage Match Analysis doesn't tell anything about the success or the failure of the marriage. Conducting a marriage based on the Marriage Match Test could either become successful or it could become failure. This is just a probability not based on any calculations. Hence the Readers must understand that conducting a marriage using the Marriage Match Analysis is not based on Vedic Astrology.

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Sunday, 2 February 2014

SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE THROUGH VEDIC ASTROLOGY

Let us see the steps to be taken to ensure a successful marriage.

1. Character Analysis: First analyze the character of the Couples. Find out the compatibility with their mindset. A Marriage becomes always be successful, if the couple's mindset travels on the same directions.

Example: 
1. A boy with the vibrant nature would find it extremely difficult to co-habit with a lazy girl.
2. A Girl with clean habits can't tolerate a Boy who does not keep himself bodily clean.
3. The Person with good charcater can't co-exist with a life partber within a criminal background.

2. Sexual Compatibilty: Find out the physical and sexual compatibilty by using the horoscope and also through the "Yoni Porutham"

Example: 
1. A marriage automatically fails, if the Boy or Girl has too much interests in sex and the other partner does not evince the same level of interests in the sexual relationship.
2. The Marriage also fails, if the Boy or Girl tend to lead a unethical sexual activities and the other partner prefers to enjoy their sexual activities in a ethical manner.
3. The Marriage also fails, if the horoscope of any one of the Couple or both indicates trouble with their sexual ability and fitness.

3. Dasa Sandhi: Find out whether the Couples do come under "Dasa Sandhi". The word Dasa Sandhi means that the couples coming under bad Mahadasa period on a concurrent manner, then those Marriage is also likely to fail.

Example: A Marriage is always likely to come under severe stress, if the Couples go through 3rd, 6th, 8th and 12th house lord's Mahadasa or Maraka Graha's Mahadasa on a simultaneous manner.

4. Financial Aspects: The success of the Marriage largely depends on the economic viability and strength of both the Couples. If both the Couples do have a weak strength of Grahas that denotes their poor performances in their professional and financial strength on a simultaneous basis, then the Couple's marriage life would be filled with sorrow and economic diasater.

5. Kalathira Dosha: The word "Kalathira" denotes the life partner. If the Kalathira Dosham is present in both the Boy and the Grl's horoscope, then it could act as a catalyst for the troubles in the Marriage life. The Kalathira Dosham would create differences, temorary or permanent separations, divorce or even death in the Couple's life. Thus the Kalathira Dosham could act against the success of the Marriages.

6. Marriage Match Analysis: The Couple must get minimum of 6 out of 10 positive matches based on their Jenma Nakshatra and Rasi (Moon Sign).

7. Muhurtha Date and Time: The Marriage date and time also plays a crucial role in deciding the success of the Marraige. Read this link Importance of Muhurtha Date and Time to understand the importance and the positive effects in making the Marriages to be successful.

Conclusions: A Marriage would never fail, if the analysis of the Couples horoscopes are done properly.

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