MARRIAGE ASTROLOGY: Marriage Delay

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Wednesday, 29 March 2017

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Vedic Astrology: Pitra Dosha and Marriage:

Everyone must understand that the existence of “Pitra Dosha” in the natal Horoscope has the capacity to derail the Marriage and Personal Life of anybody in this world. Let us first understand “What is Pitra Dosha?” and “What are the impacts of Pitra Dosha on the Marriage Life?”  



What is “Pitra Dosha?”

The word “Pitra” (or) “Pitru” means the “Souls of the departed ancestors”. As per the Hindu Religion, the death is not end to a life @ the soul of the departed person would take another form of life in a separate world called “Pitru Logam (World of departed souls) away from the Earth. Let us define it in the following ways to understand it better.

A person had died; and his soul would knew that the death had happened to him @ the soul will possess the exact amount of consciousness about his earlier life & family.

Everyone will have “Sthula body” meaning that it is noticeable and traceable. Anybody can see it, feel it, experience it and interact with it. After death, everyone will have “Sooksama body” meaning that is invisible and untraceable. Nobody can see it, feel it, experience it (or) interact with it. The Soul which has “Sooksama body” does not come under common physical laws that are applicable in this world. The Soul can hear what others speak; but they are incapable of communicating with them. The Soul can travel at the speed of the mind. The Soul can penetrate any objects (or) any medium.

The Soul would attain another medium @ body called as “Sooksama” (or) “Aruba” meaning that “unnoticeable”. The Soul would remain mentally connected to their family members because of their love, pain and emotions.

The Soul would need to depart from this world on the 13th day from its death.

The Soul would travel for one year to reach the Pitra Loga (World of Departed Souls).

The Souls would be needed to wipe out their emotional links with their old family members, so that they would be eligible to take next birth in another form.

There are two options that would be available to the Souls to attain these results.

1.   The Soul be matured enough to understand that this is the new reality; and must eliminate all the emotional links about their earlier family related issues.
2.   The family members especially the male members of the departed souls must do the “Shraddham” and “Pitru Tharpanam” for the departed souls to help them to heal their mental wounds; and help prepare for the next form of life (*The methods are clearly defined in the Hindu Vedas).

Normally, the Souls of the peoples, who possess the spiritual maturity, would automatically get detached from their old family’s emotional issues. Thus they would be in a position to take another form of life.

Majority of the souls that leaves behind the world with love for money, property (or) family relationships along with anger and vengeance would remain connected to their old family members through strong emotions. In such cases, the “Shraddham” and “Pithru Tharpanam” is highly necessary to cut off the emotional links with their departed ancestors. In not, the Souls become restless and highly frustrated because of the long agony to wait endlessly for the next birth, because the soul would experience all the pain and sorrow that it had endured during the time of death. This would make the Souls to condemn (or) curse their remaining family members due to their indifference (or) negligence. The curse of the souls of the departed ancestors on their family members is defined as “Pitra Dosha”

Alternative reasons for family getting afflicted by “Pitra Dosha”

As per the Hindu Religion, the following 5 sins are considered as highly dangerous and condemnable.

1. Don’t cheat anyone for any reasons @ earning money/assets through illegal (or) immoral (or) unethical manner

2. Don’t speak anything that you don’t know @ speaking ill about others without knowing the truth (or) giving false testimony

3. Don’t create divisions within a family, couple, friendship, relationship (or) partnership

4. Don’t damage the modesty (or) life of women @ physically/sexually abusing (or) willfully cheating them on the relationship (or) maintaining extra-marital relationship.

5. Don’t aid, support (or) act on the issue of cruelty/maiming/killing any humans, animals (or) all creatures in the world.

Results: If anybody does this act in their life, they may have to take multiple births and go through same kind of agony that they have inflicted on others. Thus the Pitra Dosha would automatically affect any family, if they indulge in these acts.

How would you identify the family afflicted by “Pitra Dosha?”

Following symptoms in any family would help you to easily identify the presence of “Pitra Dosh”

Level 1: Inordinate marriage delays; living as bachelors for the entire lifetime

Level 2: Failed Marriages due to various reasons like separation, divorce (or) death.

Level 3: Inordinate delay in getting conceived for a child

Level 4: Miscarriages during the pregnancy (or) forced abortion (or) willful abortion

Level 5: Serious problem occurring during the pregnancy

Level 6: Possessing a child with mental (or) physical disability.

Level 7: Unnatural death occurring in a family due to accidents (or) murder (or) suicide 

Note 1: The Level 1 represents the least level of problems in “Pitra Dosha” and the Level 7 represents the worst form of “Pitra Dosha”

Note 2: You must understand that the “Pitra Dosha” would not create any major impact on career, finances (or) wealth of a native who has been affected by “Pitra Dosha” Hence don’t assume that just because a person is rich (or) powerful, then it doesn’t automatically guarantee a peaceful life.

Impact of “Pitra Dosha”:

1. The Couple would face quarrels, squabbles and fight on daily basis ripping off their peacefulness in their family life.

2. The Couple would maintain distance away from each other (or) face temporary separation.

3. The Couple would face permanent separation due to divorce (or) death of their Partner.

4. The Couple could face inordinate delays in getting pregnant (or) face multiple complications during the pregnancy.

5. The Couple would face prospect of adopting another child.

6. The Couple would be saddled with mentally (or) physical disabled child.

7. The Couple could face sudden losses/damages (or) unexpected events impacting their life heavily.

8. The Couple would be made to remain as an onlooker into the sufferings of their future generations.

How to identify the “Pitra Dosh” in the Horoscope?

1. The presence of the Sun, descending Moon, Mars, Raghu, Sun, Shani and Kethu in the 5th house indicates the Pithru dosham (Pitra Dosha).

2. The 5th and/or 9th house lord getting debilitated or in retrograde position or getting weakened.

3. The 5th and/or 9th house lord is either being associated with malefic planets or staying in a malefic house.

4. The presence of debilitated or retrograde planets in the 5th and/or 9th house.

5. The 5th house and/or 9th house lord is getting weakened in the Divisional charts.

6. The 5th house lord and/or 9th house lord traversing in the Star of a malefic planet or traversing in the 22nd star/88 division from the birth Star.

7. The presence of malefic house lords getting placed in the 5th and/or 9th house

8.  Association of 5th and/or 9th house lord with Raghu/Kethu in any house. The problems could remain intense, if the 5th and/or 9th house lords placed in a closer proximity towards the Rahu/Kethu

9. If the Raghu or Kethu is placed in a close proximity to the Sun and/or Moon.

10. If the 5th or 9th house lords getting very low counts in their respective Ashtavargha charts; this situation indicates serious nature of the Pitra Dosha. 

Author’s Opinion:

Do not invite troubles to your daughter by getting married to a boy from a family that has “Pitra Dosha” as an additional asset.

Keep safer distances away from the family who possess these following symptoms.

1. Rich family but the earnings are done in an illegal (or) immoral (or) destructive manner

2. Parents of the boy who cheats their own brother & sisters for property

3. Family possessing legal battle in the court over the property issue

4. Family who doesn’t care for their aged parents

5. Family who has directly (or) indirectly involved in sex related crimes

6. Family who has directly (or) indirectly involved in crimes that are related to physical abuse/murder attempt/murder charges.

7. Family consisting of members with serious physical (or) mental disabilities

8. Family with any record of accidents/suicide/suicidal attempt

Success of the marriage couldn’t be decided on the basis of Marriage Matching. A Marriage could fail despite having perfect matching 10/10 points; and fails in “Pitra Dosha” test.

A handsome boy (or) boy from a wealthy family (or) a boy with excellent job is not a guarantee the successful (or) peaceful marriage life.

Parents must understand that you are doing great damage and disservice to your daughter, if choose a boy whose family is afflicted by Pithru Dosham.

Girls must understand that the personality, job, wealth and status of the Boy are no guarantee for the success (or) peacefulness of the marriage life.

Remedies:

1. Frankly speaking there is no remedies @ you need to pay for the wrong selection of a boy in your life due to your lust, ravenousness and greediness

2. Those who had already married and start to read this Post now, go to my blog: www.pithrudosham.blogspot.in and read all the contents properly. Ask the elder member of the family to do the Pithru Tharpanam and Shraddham without any break.


But “Prevention is better than cure”; hence try to be wiser before your marriage. 

Saturday, 4 March 2017

RAHU IN 2ND HOUSE

Vedic Astrology: Rahu and its impact on Marriages

There is a general trend among the Astrologers and also the Indian Public to blame Rahu and Kethu for the Marriage delays and Marriage debacles. Is it true that the Rahu (or Kethu) posses the capacity to wreck the Marriage by sitting in a particular position? Let us see the probable popular notions that are directed against the Rahu & the Kethu being floated by popular Astrologers and popular astrological sites.


Rahu (or Kethu) is in the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 7th, 8th and 11thhouses; hence it creates obstacles in the marriage.

If we assume that this particular theory is correct and accurate, then 50% of the population will have defective marriages (or) delayed marriages. That is, the Rahu (or the Kethu) needs to be placed in any of the 12th houses in the natal Horoscope. Here blaming the Rahu (or Kethu) placement in any of the above mentioned 6 houses will pave way for the disqualification of the marriage prospects for the half the population of the world.

Some Astrologers, even go to the extent of asking the natives to choose a bride (or) groom, who has the placement of Rahu (or Kethu) in their natal horoscope similar to the placement of Rahu (or Kethu) in their natal Horoscope, which is a ridiculous idea born out of emptiness. 

Let us analyze the fundamental qualities of Rahu in this post:

The Rahu would treat the Sun and Moon as its major opponent. Both the Sun and Moon will completely lose their power, when they move closer proximity towards the Rahu.

The Rahu represents the materialistic world, pleasure and gains.

The Rahu does not own any houses in the Zodiac Sign. Hence the Rahu will mirror the qualities of the House Lord, where it is being placed.

The Rahu will take nearly 18 months to cross a single Zodiac sign. Hence it will take exactly 18 years to complete a journey around the Zodiac signs.

The Rahu will move in the anti clock-wise direction. Both the Rahu and Kethu will keep equidistance among themselves @ they maintain 180 degrees between themselves.

The Rahu has the 3rd, 7th and 11th views from its place.

The Rahu, the Force Mutliplier:

The Rahu would simply multiply the qualities and characteristics of the Planets or the Zodiac Signs, whom it has associated with. That is, the Rahu would rapidly multiply the qualities of the house lords; the planets who are associated with it. In short, the Rahu will accelerate the functionality of the particular planet or the zodiac sign, irrespective of the end results. Thus, it makes the natives to do or act anything in a repetitive (repeated manner).

Let us see some examples on the functionalities of the Rahu:

The natives getting addicted to smoking, drinking and gambling

The natives becoming workaholic @ working for longer hours

The natives finding difficult to control their appetites for some food/drink @ eating/drinking the food/drink on regular intervals

The native getting involved in book readings (or) opting to learn new subjects throughout their lifetime

The native getting involved in sexual relationships in multiple times

The native getting involved in theft, crime (or) illegal activities in a repeated manner

The native getting into love relationship (or) sexual relationship with multiple partners

Results: The Rahu would pave the way for multiplication (or) duplication of the work/event for numerous times, once it has been initiated.

We all know about “Rahu Kalam” (Period dominated by Rahu) which runs approximately for 1½ hours on daily basis with variable time limits. As per the Hindu Vedas, we are not supposed to initiate any auspicious (or) inauspicious works during the period dominated by Rahu. The Rahu will make the native to do a job/work/event for multiple times, if any work/events that has been initiated during the Rahu Kalam. Let us see some examples.

If the Marriage is done during the Rahu Kalam, then it will produce 'multiple marriages" meaning that the marriage is likely to fail or the natives would have multiple life partners.

If the natives start going to the hospital during the Rahu Kalam, then they will be forced to go to hospital again and again for number of times for the same treatment.

If the natives go for surgery during the Rahu Kalam, then they would face prospect of undergoing the same type of surgery multiple times. 

If the natives start or attend an interview during the Rahu Kalam, then they will attend many interviews meaning that their interviews may not deliver the required results.

If the natives borrow money or lend money during the Rahu Kalam, then the process will continue in an endless manner.

If the dead body is taken for burial or the last rites are done during the Rahu Kalam, then the natives will be forced to repeat the process again and again for multiple number of deaths.

If a travel is started during the Rahu Kalam, the process will get repeated. If the travel is done for leisure purposes, it will make them happy as the natives would be travelling multiple times

Hence anything good or bad, if it is started or done during the Rahu period will get it repeated. Let us see the placement of Rahu in each house that could potentially damage the marriage prospects.

The Rahu in the 1st house (Lagna) or the Rahu is getting placed with closer proximity towards the 1st house lord would make the mind and the body restless. That is, the natives would not be able to sit in a particular place for longer period of time @ the native would roam around and like to live a very materialistic life like attending parties, travelling for pleasure and spending time for nothing.

The Rahu in the 2nd house or the Rahu is getting placed with closer proximity towards the 2nd house lord would multiply their family setup. That is, the native may maintain multiple families like keeping their Parents as a separate family and may maintain them (or) may maintain illegal family setup with the polygamist relationships (or) remain separated from the family and living as a separate entity.

The Rahu in the 3rd house or the Rahu is getting placed to closer proximity towards the 3rd house lord would multiply the sexual stimulation both in their body and mind for numerous times. The natives would maintain friendship with numerous peoples. The native will have faster mood swings in positive/controversial manner.

The Rahu in the 4th house or the Rahu is getting placed to closer proximity towards the 4th house lord would multiply their assets and lifestyle @ the native would not remain satisfied with their movable and immovable assets; it push their mind towards rapid acquisition of assets (it could be both in a legal (or) in an illegal manner; it depends on the natives horoscope). The Rahu would make the natives to experience all kinds of lifestyle during their lifetime (example; study/sporty/lavish/dangerous/filthy/spiritual environments).

The Rahu in the 5th house or the Rahu is getting placed with closer proximity towards the 5th house lord would multiply their interest in learning, studies and enhancing skills. The natives would have multiple children (or) attempt to have multiple children. The natives would often try to join new jobs meaning that they switch jobs often (or) try to do multiple jobs (or) do multiple jobs concurrently. The natives would remain addicted to anything like gambling/lottery to attain quick fortunes.

The Rahu in the 6th house or the Rahu is getting placed with closer proximity towards the 6th house lord would borrow money (or) create debts often. The natives would face rapid increase in the debt levels; and also face increase in the intensity of the chronic illness in the body. The natives would face numerous opponents in their life in all walks of their life.

The Rahu in the 7th house or the Rahu is getting placed with closer proximity towards the 7th house lord would have multiple partners (love/life/sex/work/business) in their life. The natives might develop partnership in love/life/sex with multiple persons concurrently.

The Rahu in the 8th house or the Rahu is getting placed with closer proximity towards the 8th house lord would face stimulation (or) urge (or) itching in their private parts due to various reasons like health issues (or) sexual desires.

The Rahu in the 9th house or the Rahu is getting placed with closer proximity towards the 9th house lord would remain addicted to spiritual (or) ritualistic ideas/beliefs (*the ritualistic ideas might remain peaceful (or) violent (or) controversial).

The Rahu in the 10th house or the Rahu is getting placed with closer proximity towards the 10th house lord would face jobs that are highly monotonous in nature (or) will be forced to do the same work in an repetitive manner (or): will have a job (or) duty that remains almost same during their entire period of lifetime: (or) will work in multiple jobs with exactly similar duties/responsibilities.

The Rahu in the 11th house or the Rahu is getting placed with closer proximity towards the 11th house lord would create multiple incomes (or) income on daily basis. The natives might earn money (or) get money (both in a legal/illegal manner) from a single source of work (or) earn money from different source of work/investments (or) earn money through legalized channels and also through dubious methods from two (or) more source of work.

The Rahu in the 12th house or the Rahu is getting placed with closer proximity towards the 12th house lord would create multiple expenditures (or) continuous form of expenses (or) dramatic rise in the expenses. The natives would sleep long hours (or) sleep multiple times in a single day. The natives would ejaculate their semen from their body multiple times with (or) without the involvement of their Partners.

Intensity of the Rahu factor:

1. The above mentioned results are applicable (at variable levels), if the Rahu is placed in the above mentioned houses from the Lagna (Rising sign).

2. The Intensity of the above results are likely to increase (at variable levels), if the Rahu is placed alongside the house lord in the any Zodiac sign.

3. The intensity of the above results are likely to increase, if the Rahu is placed in the same Star (Nakshatra) along with the House Lord.

4. The intensity of the above mentioned results increases further, if both the Rahu and the House Lord is placed in the same path within the same Nakshatra.

6. The intensity of the Rahu increases manifold, if the Rahu is placed within +/- 03.20.00 degrees from the planet.

7. The intensity of the Rahu increases further, if the house lord (whom the Rahu is associated) is traversing in the Thiruvathira (Aridra), Swathi and Sathayam Nakshatras.

8. The planets who are within the purview of 3rd, 7th and 11th house views of the Rahu would also feel the increased intensity of the Rahu as their "Force Multiplier".

Author’s Views: The Placement of Rahu in 1st, 2nd, 5th, 7th, 8th and 11th house creates Kethu’s placement in the opposite houses @ 7th, 8th, 11th, 1st and 2nd houses. Thus the Placement of Rahu/Kethu in 3rd, 4th, 6th, 9th, 10th and 12th houses are considered not harmful as per the Astrologers.

But in my view, the Rahu in the 3rd house creates mood swings, multiple friendships and too much interest in sexual relationships. The Rahu in the 4th house creates multiple lifestyle (or) nomadic lifestyle. The Rahu in the 5th house creates too much interest in gambling and speculations. The Rahu in the 6th house increases the debts and illness. The Rahu in the 9th house creates too much interest in spiritual/ritual activities. The Rahu in the 10th house creates continuous job changes (or) make them to work in a repetitive manner. The Rahu in the 11th house could push the natives to take greater risks in their life to earn money through multiple sources.

Thus the placement of Rahu in any houses will have its own impact. We need to analyse the individual horoscope of the natives to find out the exact nature and level of impact in their life.

We should not assume that the Rahu in the 7th house would automatically create multiple marriages (or) Rahu in the 2nd house creates multiple families. We need to analyse the strength and placement of 7th and 2nd house lords to come to a conclusion.

Hence Rahu doesn’t possess the capacity to delay the marriage (or) create defective marriages. I request the readers to drop the notion that the placement of Rahu (or Kethu) in particular houses is the source of troubled marriages.

Wednesday, 4 May 2016

MARRIAGE ASTROLOGY: WHEN WILL I GET MARRIED?

Planetary Position that delays your Marriage: 

Many parents, young boys and young girls struggle to get married and their biggest worry is that whether they would be able to marry a right person and will their marriage be successful? Let us see the reasons for the delay in getting married as per your horoscope. Here we are going to find reasons for the "Delayed Marriage" (or) "Late Marriage" not the reasons for the "Failed Marriage"

1. The 2nd house lord getting poor strength in the Ashtavargha.

2. The 7th house lord getting poor strength in the Ashtakavarga.

3. The 2nd house lord getting combusted by the Sun due to its closer proximity within 09.60.00 degrees to the Sun. The problems become more intense, if the 2nd house lord is placed within 06.40.00 degrees; the problem becomes more acute, if the 2nd house lord is placed within 03.20.00 degrees; the problem becomes more severe if the Sun and the 2nd house lord traverses in the same Star Path; the problem gets complicated if the Star Lord of the 2nd house is owned by the malefic planets; the problems becomes so acute, if the 2nd house lord gets placed in the malefic houses or aligned with the malefic planets.

4. The 7th house lord getting combusted by the Sun due to its closer proximity within 09.60.00 degrees to the Sun. The problems become more intense, if the 7th house lord is placed within 06.40.00 degrees; the problem becomes more acute, if the 7th house lord is placed within 03.20.00 degrees; the problem becomes more severe if the Sun and the 7th house lord traverses in the same Star Path; the problem gets complicated if the Star Lord of the 7th house is owned by the malefic planets; the problems becomes so acute, if the 7th house lord gets placed in the malefic houses or aligned with the malefic planets.

5. The Placement of 2nd house lord with the closer proximity towards the Kethu @ if the 2nd house lord is placed within 09.60.00 degrees to the Kethu. The problems become more intense, if the 2nd house lord is placed within 06.40.00 degrees; the problem becomes more acute, if the 2nd house lord is placed within 03.20.00 degrees. the problem becomes more severe if the Kethu and the 2nd house lord traverses in the same Star Path; the problem gets complicated if the Star Lord of the 2nd house is owned by the malefic planets; the problems becomes so acute, if the 2nd house lord gets placed in the malefic houses or aligned with the malefic planets The problems becomes more acute, if the 2nd house lord is Sun or Moon @ both the Gemini Rising natives and Cancer Rising natives are most vulnerable to this particular problem.

6. The Placement of 7th house lord with the closer proximity towards the Kethu @ if the 7th house lord is placed within 09.60.00 degrees to the Kethu. The problems become more intense, if the 7th house lord is placed within 06.40.00 degrees; the problem becomes more acute, if the 7th house lord is placed within 03.20.00 degrees. the problem becomes more severe if the Kethu and the 7th house lord traverses in the same Star Path; the problem gets complicated if the Star Lord of the 7th house is owned by the malefic planets; the problems becomes so acute, if the 7th house lord gets placed in the malefic houses or aligned with the malefic planets The problems becomes more acute, if the 7th house lord is Sun or Moon @ both the Capricorn Rising natives and Aquarius Rising natives are most vulnerable to this particular problem.

7. The marriage gets delayed in an inordinate manner, if the 2nd house lord gets affected mentioned under the Points 3 & 5.

8. The marriage gets delayed in an inordinate manner, if the 7th house lord gets affected mentioned under the Points 4 & 6.

9. The marriage faces inordinate delays or faces numerous hurdles, if both the 2nd house lord & 7th house lord gets affected simultaneously as per the details mentioned under Points 7 & 8.

10. The Marriage faces delays or hurdles, if the Mahadasha Lord or Antardasa Lord or Pratyantar Dasha Lord of the natives gets poor strength and placed in the malefic houses from the Navamsa Lagna, Trimshamsha Lagna, Khavedamsha Lagna, Akshvedamsha Lagna and Shastiamsa Lagna.

11. The Marriage also faces further delays or hurdles, if the 2nd or 7th house lords (or)  both the 2nd & 7th house lord traverses in the 22nd Nakshatra or 88th Star Path of the natives Jenma Nakshatra position.

12. The Marriage prospects become weak or faces inordinate delays, if the 2nd house lord (and/or) 7th house lord from the Moon Sign and Sun sign becomes weak and gets poor strength in the Ashtakavarga.

We are going to find out the simple & multiple methods to conduct marriage faster and in a successful manner in our subsequent posts. We are also going to find out the specific temples that can guarantee the successful marriages.

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