MARRIAGE ASTROLOGY: Is Marriage Match Enough?

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Sunday, 11 January 2015

HOW TO USE ASTROLOGY FOR CONDUCTING MARRIAGE?

Successful Marriage through Astrology:

Mob or Mass Hysteria on Marriage Astrology:

"I don't understand anything; but everybody follows some system'. Hence I do follow it. That is, a society in general follow certain system either due to rumours or fear. These tendencies are defined as mass or mob hysteria. In general, most of the people believe or follow certain system or method without understanding it or verifying it. Hence the decision taken under this hysterical conditions do not evolve under any logic or reasons.

Astrology is being used by most of the people, when the marriage is to be conducted. The Boy or the Girl don't understand anything about the Astrology. Simply they understand that a marriage could become successful, if they come under perfect Marriage Match. Hence they look for their Birth Star and Rasi and do conclude the feasibility of their marriage. That is, a marriage becomes more successful, if the couples has perfect matchings among them; and the couples get dejected, if they fail in the Marriage Match Test.

Can a Marriage be successful, if the Couples have perfect marriage match among them?

OR

Will the Marriage ends in failure, if the Couples don't have marriage match among them?

What is Marriage Match? 

Even before 60 years back, the Girls were not allowed to come out of their house after attaining puberty. Those days, the Girls were not allowed to speak to strangers. While conducting a marriage, the prospective groom were not allowed to see or speak to the bride. Most of the marriages were conducted without the consent of the bride or groom. That is, the young boys or girls didn't get the opportunity to express their views.

There was no mobile phone, internet or camera to take pictures or to speak to one another. The Bride and the Groom had to mostly rely on the versions and informations or descriptions provided by their family members. The Groom would be able to see the face of the bride only after the completion of marriage rituals.

The "Marriage Match Test" is a tool devised by the Astrologer who were living at those time to find out the physical, mental and sexual compatibility of the Couples. That is, the Marriage Match Analysis will tell you, whether the Couples enjoy physical compatibility or mental compatibility or sexual compatibility. For example, we shall study certain listed matchings (porutham).

Gana Porutham: This particular Marriage Match tell us, whether the Couples enjoys good physical compatibility or not. The Couples who have the below mentioned complexions or body structure will fail in their Gana Porutham test.

1. Thin Boy with chubby Girl (OR) a fat boy with a lean girl

2. Tall Boy with short girl (OR) vice - versa

3. Dark coloured Boy with fair skinned girl

What the Gana Porutham doesn't tell: This Porutham will not tell us, whether the Boy or the Girl has any health problems.

Rasi Porutham and Rasi Athipathi Porutham: Both the Porutham (Marriage Match Test) tell us, whether the Couple will have similarity in their thinking and behaviour and also tell us, whether they enjoy mental cohesion. The Couples who come under this category fail on this Rasi or Rasi Athipathi or both the tests.

1. The Couples speaking under the multiple voices or speaking in two different voices.

2. The Couples taking diametrically opposite views on every important views.

3. The Couples often prepare to argue or quarrel or squabble among themselves.

What the Rasi Porutham or Rasi Athipathi Porutham does not indicate: These Porutham doesn't tell us, whether the Girl or the Boy has any criminal characteristics or unwelcome behaviour

Yoni Porutham: This particular Marriage Match tell us, whether the Couple enjoys their sexual relationship or not @ whether they enjoy sexual compatibility among themselves. The Couples who are mentioned under this category fail or remain disappointed or remain disillusioned with their sexual relationship.

1. The Girl with small vaginal openings and the Boy with Large genitals and vice versa. This will create immense pain during the sexual relationships.

2. The Girl with delayed orgasm and the Boy with premature ejaculation.

3. The Girl and the Boy possessing different attitudes or habits or interests in their sexual activities.

What the Yoni Porutham doesn't tell us that?: This Yoni Porutham doesn't indicate the sexual ability or weakness (OR) it doesn't indicate the sexual behaviour or habits.

Now let us work with a probable scenario 1: 

Select a male, who has criminal background. Draw a horoscope chart for him and find out his Rashi (Zodiac sign) and Nakshatra (Birth Star). Select a female with good educational and financial background. She will also posses a Nakshatra and Rashi.

Now match both the horoscopes. In case, if there is perfect matchings (for example: 8 out of 10) between those horoscopes, can the female with good character and background marry the male with criminal background? Will the marriage be successful or brings happiness to the female?

Here the Marriage will not be successful, despite the Marriage Match Analysis indicates high level of matchings between the male and the female.

Let us study the possible scenario 2:

For example a person who was convicted of some serious criminal charges and he married a women, who also has criminal past in her life. Suppose the Couple gets 8 out of 10 Marriage matchings, then they live happily as couples. Because their attitudes and lifestyle are more or less the same. There could be perfect mind coordination on criminal activities by both the Couples. Perhaps they look could be perfect personality matches between them; also they could be fully satisfied on their sexual relationships.

Does this guarantee the Couple a perfect and happier life? The Couple could become the best partners @ whether they remain inside the jail or move out of the jail, they remain as the best partner to each other.

Author's Opinion: 

1. The Marriage Match Analysis doesn't guarantee the success of the marriage life.

2. Gana Porutham is irrelevant today, because the Couples see each other, interact with each other and chat with each other. When you know your partner very well, why do you need a Gana Porutham to find out the physical compatibility?

3. Rashi Porutham or Rashi Athipathi Porutham is unnecessary, because the Couple gets ready for their marriage only after understanding about the nature, behaviour and tendency of their life partner. The Couple could not blame others for their failure of their marriage, if they find deficiency in the mental cohesion at the later stage.

4. Yoni Porutham: Large section of the present generations even have physical relationship before getting married. For those categories, even the Yoni Porutham is not all necessary.

What the Marriage Match doesn't tell us or indicate?

1. The Marriage Match will not indicate the characteristics, attitudes or behaviour.

2. The Marriage Match will not indicate the physical and mental health.

3. The Marriage Match will not indicate the financial or professional success.

4. The Marriage Match will not indicate the sexual potency level.

5. The Marriage Match will not indicate the life longevity.

Hence the Marriage Match Analysis doesn't tell anything about the success or the failure of the marriage. Conducting a marriage based on the Marriage Match Test could either become successful or it could become failure. This is just a probability not based on any calculations. Hence the Readers must understand that conducting a marriage using the Marriage Match Analysis is not based on Vedic Astrology.

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Monday, 17 November 2014

WHY DO COUPLES FIGHT AMONG THEMSELVES

Who is your Life Partner (Part 2)?

1. The Couple always squabble among themselves.

2. A husband always disagrees with his wife on every issues; and vice-versa

3. The Couples always loves to disagree with each other.

4. The Couple always take decisions diametrically opposite to each other.

5. Any one or both of the Couples shout or fight it out at even for petty reasons.

Let us find out the planetary position that brings nightmarish marital ties:

1. If the Couple come under the SASTANGA DOSHAM @ if a husband's rasi is 6 or 8 places away from the wife's Rasi or vice-versa. The Couples come under this category often develop diametrically opposite views, which leads squabbles or fights. please find the table that contains the details of the Rasi (if the Couples come under this Rasi) that escalates the fight.



2. The Couples having KALATHIRA DOSHA will also fight with each other. The Couple who has their 7th house lord (House Lord of Life Partner) is placed or combined with 6th house Lord (House Lord of enemies), then they often fight with each other. The Couple who has their 7th house lord (House Lord of Life Partner) is placed or combined with 8th house Lord (House Lord of Litigations) will take their fight to a low level or to the level of litigations.

* If any of the Couple has Kalathira Dosham in their horoscopes, then the problems occur in a moderate manner. If both of them have the "Kalathira Dosham" indicated in the horoscope, then their differences often reaches the peak.

3. The fight between the Couples often peak, if any one of the Couple's has the combination of 7th house lord with the 6th and/or 8th house lord exist in the Navamsa chart. If both the Couple's navamsa chart indicates the existence of the same planetary position then their fight escalates to an unbearable level.

4. The Couples fight increases to a alarming level, if any one among the Couple has the combination of 7th house lord with the 6th and/or 8th house lord exist in the Trishamsha chart. If both the Couple's Trishamsha chart indicates the existence of the same planetary position then their fight reaches its unimaginable level.

Note: 

1. If a person has "Yes" answer for all these 4 points, then the Couple would become popular among their family members and the public through their fight and litigations.

2. The above planetary position would only indicate the differences, arguments, fights and litigations among the Couples.

3. The above planetary position does not indicate the limited, temporary or permanent separations of the Couples.

4. The above planetary position does not indicate the nature of differences (@ verbal abuse, mental abuse, physical abuse or character assasinations)

5. The above planerat position does not indicate the nature of litigations (Physical torture, legal and non-legal disputes).

We shall see the detailed studies on the nature of differences, type of litigations and also on the Couple's ability to co-exist despite their serious problems in our next post.

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MISUSE OF ASTROLOGY FOR CONDUCTING MARRIAGE

KALATHRA DOSHA: REASON FOR FAILURE IN THE MARRIAGE

RAHU: THE ASTROLOGICAL FALL GUY


Thursday, 9 October 2014

WHO IS YOUR HUSBAND?

Is your Love Partner or Life Partner reliable, trustworthy, amicable, humorous, sociable or compassionate?

(OR)

Is your Love Partner or Life Partner angry, dominant, selfish, possessive, cynical or too materialistic?

Let us study the various characteristics of the men that one of them is going to be your life partner. Now let us see the planetary positions that defines the probable chracteristics of a male.

Who is your Life Partner (Probability 1):

1. My husband is angry.

2. My husband is highly possessive. He just eats away into my freedom. He doesn't care for my preference. He chooses my dress, lifestyle and even my diet in the name of too much love, care and affections.

3. He is highly suspicious and just intrude into my privacy. He doesn't allow me to maintain my friendship or even doesn't allow me to interact with my brothers & sisters (including cousins). I have a feeling that he is constantly watching me or he is stalking me even on day to day issues.

4. He turns violent too, if I don't recognise the limits that are drawn by him.

5. He is very selfish and too materialistic. He doesn't compromise on his desires or expectations.

6. He treat me as a entertainment tool in the bed. He doesn't understand that I too have preferences in the sexual life. He becomes angry and violent, if I doesn't cooperate fully in the bed. His sexual interests grows over the period of time, irrespective of his age, stature or health.

7. He doesn't care that his image is getting sullied to the outside world or simply he doesn't have the conciousness that he is earning a bad reputation.

Planetary position that indicates the qualities of a male, which are mentioned above.

1. The Mars getting placed in the Lagna, 6th house, 7th house and the 10th house. This would indicate the anger and high level of possessive attitudes.

2. The combination of Mars with the Lagna Lord and getting placed in any houses. This would also indicate the anger and high level of possessive attitudes.

3. If the Mars (either it must be a lagna lord or must be associated with the Lagna  or Lagna lord) is in the retrograde position or in the company of any retrograde position, then the anger and possessiveness grows further.

4. If the Mars (either it must be a lagna lord or must be associated with the Lagna or Lagna lord) is in the debilitated position (getting placed in the Cancer - Kataka Rasi), then the vengeance would travel along the anger and possesive attitudes. If the Mars is associated with any debilitated planet along with the Lagna or Lagna lord, then the personal will be vengeful, arrogant and highly possessive in nature.

5. If the Mars (either it must be a lagna lord or must be associated with the Lagna lord) is associated with Rahu, then the person remains too materialistic, suspicious and deceitful.

6. If the Mars (either it must be a lagna lord or must be associated with the Lagna or the Lagna lord) is associated with the Sun, then the anger grows to a record level.

7. If the Mars (either it must be a lagna lord or must be associated with the Lagna  or the Lagna lord) is associated with the Shani, then the person will turn violent or remain very aggressive.

8. If the Mars (either it must be a lagna lord or must be associated with the Lagna or the Lagna lord) is associated with the Venus, then the person would be aggressive with the sexual preferences.

9. If the Mars (either it must be a lagna lord or must be associated with the Lagna or the Lagna lord) gets stronger strength in the Divisional charts and also in the Ashtavargha charts, then the person would remain physically stronger and posses anger, dominant, aggressive and possesive attitudes. If the Mars owns any malefic houses, then the person would posses undesirable characteristics.

10. If the Mars (either it must be a lagna lord or must be associated with the Lagna or the Lagna lord) is associated with Sun, Shani, Venus and Rahu, then the person remains very angry, dominant, highly possessive, aggressive, selfish, violent and deceitful.

11. If these combinations are placed in the benefice houses, then the Person will not let their regressive mindset to damage their reputations or lifestyle @ they will hide their characteristics from the Public.

12. If these combinations are placed in the malefie houses, then all these contraversial tendencies would be known to the outside world.

Note: 

If a Girl likes to be submissive or posses weak personality level or doesn't have economical independence or burdened with weak paternal family backgound or for the cause of their children can take all the insults and live as a couple to the outside world.

The Girls who do not want to sub-serve others or those who posses strong personality or those who has economical freedom or good family background or those who are not able to withstand the sexual abuse would always prefer to walk out of the marriage.

The Girls and the Parents of the Girls must do the analysis of the Boy's Horoscope properly before the pre-marriage level itself. Deciding a marriage based on the results of the  Marriage Match Analysis would be self defeating and retrograde; that would be a foolish decision too.


Sunday, 2 February 2014

SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE THROUGH VEDIC ASTROLOGY

Let us see the steps to be taken to ensure a successful marriage.

1. Character Analysis: First analyze the character of the Couples. Find out the compatibility with their mindset. A Marriage becomes always be successful, if the couple's mindset travels on the same directions.

Example: 
1. A boy with the vibrant nature would find it extremely difficult to co-habit with a lazy girl.
2. A Girl with clean habits can't tolerate a Boy who does not keep himself bodily clean.
3. The Person with good charcater can't co-exist with a life partber within a criminal background.

2. Sexual Compatibilty: Find out the physical and sexual compatibilty by using the horoscope and also through the "Yoni Porutham"

Example: 
1. A marriage automatically fails, if the Boy or Girl has too much interests in sex and the other partner does not evince the same level of interests in the sexual relationship.
2. The Marriage also fails, if the Boy or Girl tend to lead a unethical sexual activities and the other partner prefers to enjoy their sexual activities in a ethical manner.
3. The Marriage also fails, if the horoscope of any one of the Couple or both indicates trouble with their sexual ability and fitness.

3. Dasa Sandhi: Find out whether the Couples do come under "Dasa Sandhi". The word Dasa Sandhi means that the couples coming under bad Mahadasa period on a concurrent manner, then those Marriage is also likely to fail.

Example: A Marriage is always likely to come under severe stress, if the Couples go through 3rd, 6th, 8th and 12th house lord's Mahadasa or Maraka Graha's Mahadasa on a simultaneous manner.

4. Financial Aspects: The success of the Marriage largely depends on the economic viability and strength of both the Couples. If both the Couples do have a weak strength of Grahas that denotes their poor performances in their professional and financial strength on a simultaneous basis, then the Couple's marriage life would be filled with sorrow and economic diasater.

5. Kalathira Dosha: The word "Kalathira" denotes the life partner. If the Kalathira Dosham is present in both the Boy and the Grl's horoscope, then it could act as a catalyst for the troubles in the Marriage life. The Kalathira Dosham would create differences, temorary or permanent separations, divorce or even death in the Couple's life. Thus the Kalathira Dosham could act against the success of the Marriages.

6. Marriage Match Analysis: The Couple must get minimum of 6 out of 10 positive matches based on their Jenma Nakshatra and Rasi (Moon Sign).

7. Muhurtha Date and Time: The Marriage date and time also plays a crucial role in deciding the success of the Marraige. Read this link Importance of Muhurtha Date and Time to understand the importance and the positive effects in making the Marriages to be successful.

Conclusions: A Marriage would never fail, if the analysis of the Couples horoscopes are done properly.

WHY MARRIAGE IS GETTING DELAYED? 

Monday, 6 January 2014

IS PORUTHAM ENOUGH TO GET MARRIED?

Is perfect Marriage Match gurantees a successful Marriage?

In general, people always ask me questions like the one mentioned below:

My Rasi is ..... and my Nakshatra is ...... and 
My partner's Rasi is ..... and his/her Nakshatra is ......

Can we marry or not?


In my opinion, the question is itself flawed. No one can judge a person's character, life longevity, health, personal lifestyle, financial position and career on the basis of his/her Nakshatra alone.

Saints and criminals were born in the same Nakshatras. Can we say that a particular Nakshatra produces only Saints and another Nakshatras produces only criminal?

Hence concluding or rejecting a Marriage on the basis of the Rasi and Nakshatra is the height of the stupidity. No one gets killed or maimed just because if he/she happens to marry a person that does not have the matchings of "Marriage Match".

If a person has a strong indication of life longevity in his/her horoscope, then he/she does not die just because he/she married a wrong person.

Please read this link to find out how often Astrology is being misused by the Astrologers and also by the common peoples  http://sexjothidam.blogspot.in/2013/06/misusing-astrology-in-marriage.html

Please read this link to understand, what happens if a Marriage is being fixed only on the basis of Marriage Match @ Porutham  http://sexjothidam.blogspot.in/2012/11/can-marriage-be-fixed-only-on-basis-of.html

Please read this link to know various aspect of the Marriage before getting married  http://sexjothidam.blogspot.in/search/label/Read%20before%20Marriage

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